Once upon a time, a long long ago, in small village lived one lady, not so old, not so young. Her age was enough to take care of herself and make her bright future. Not only for herself. She had 3 kids. Two boys and one girl. They lived in small ruined house, one small piece of land that they can plant some vegetables to survive. Kids didn't have money for education, she was all alone with her kids. But, she was lucky, she had healthy and strong children. Those boys were the strongest figures for those two ladies. Mother tried so hard to make them happy, clean, and their tummies full everyday before sleep. She didn't want them to suffer. Kids were happy and thankful for everything. Mostly, they were thankful, because their mother spend most of time with them, whenever she had time. They know, she will always listen, always be shoulder when they're sad, afraid. She can jump like a girl with them when they're happy. But, when they go to sleep, with smile on their faces, she was tired, broken, sad, her eyes were full of tears, because she's trying, but it's not enough. She wanted the best for their kids. She cried, because she was so angry. She wanted more for her family and herself, because she can do this. She's strong!
- That was your great grandmother, grandma, mother... When you stand in front of the mirror, as a mother... Can you tell to yourself you're superwoman? So many women lived like this, so many women suffer to do everything for kid's future. Are you doing your best? With this blog I didn't mean to offend you as a mother. I just want to open your eyes. So long time, I was observing my surroundings. Kids are sitting with their mother's in the coffee shop, playing video games, when mother's talking about something. So many times, when some family passing me, kids was telling mother something, she's not listening. So many times I see that we are giving them something, just to let them shut up. Did your mother did the same to shut you up??? Or she wanted to talk to you, to follow your every step to remember when you grow up to make some jokes on you in front of your friend or boyfriend to make some fun?
Did you make some photos for album? Real photos, not from the phone. Did you make some memory only for yourself, not for your friends and for social media? Did your mother did the same?
Why are you using your phone all the time? Why don't you use the time for your child and family, and when baby goes to sleep, then you can do whatever you want!! Your grandmother never did, your mother never did this... Not because of the time, because they didn't have that. I can bet on this, even if they were mother's at this time, time of technology, they would be the same. They would look at you, not on the phone. You know why? Because those women, learn from their own mother's. This is something what you learn from your family when you were a kid.
When you see the videos on Youtube, animals, wild for example. Bear how treats her cub, even dogs how treats puppies, horse how treats foal. We really need to learn from the animals. We got lost because of new age. But something is forever.
REMEMBER ONE THING, EVERYTHING CAN BE CHANGED, BUT BEING MOTHER IS SOMETHING WHAT WILL BE FOREVER. LIFE IS SHORT, TIME IS SHORT. FAMILY IS FOREVER. DON'T PUT YOUR FAMILY ON THE SIDE. THEY WILL BE ALWAYS NEXT TO YOU. BATTERY ON YOUR PHONE WILL BE POWERED OFF. BE A MOTHER LIKE YOUR GRANDMOTHER, MOTHER... YOU'LL NEVER FAIL!
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