Ok. Here is an ispiration for unexpected blog post. I was really inspired and it's apropriate topic for upcoming holiday - Valentine's day.
Love tactics - amazing movie, ten times better than "How to lose a guy in 10 days" remake, and that "original" movie makes me sick in my stomach. Anyway... It's true that everybody needs tactics when you pick a person want to flirt with. It will not be interesting if you don't take a risk. Men have a tactic like perfect watch, perfect outfit, but they always pay attention on what do they drink and how do they smell. There is always clishe idea, whiskey with rocks and woody smell. I mean, it's sexy, but women already know your tactic. What do you think if you change, be unique and different. If you want me to give you an example, sorry, I am not here to help you, I am a woman and I want to be surprised too. Women like to attrack the attention about her body, to express here sexapeal, her confidence, her "she wolf" side. We should change it, it's interesting to be different from each other too.
JUST PAY ATTETNTION ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE, JUST TO NOT BE FOOLED
Availability: Both males and females find people with available body language the most attractive. Available body language is smiling, uncrossed arms, uncrossed legs, and upward gazing (not looking down at shoes or phones).
Fertility: From an evolutionary perspective, humans are tuned into cues that signal fertility and youth. Luckily, these can be emphasized with body language. For men, standing up straight, squaring the shoulders, planting feet slightly more than shoulder width apart, and displaying hands are all signs of fertility. For a woman, keeping your hair down, tilting your head to expose pheromones, and keeping hands and wrists visible to display the soft skin of the wrists are highly attractive cues.
Dear men, I must tell you one secret, the most important one, I know that both of us love to flirt, to fire up our ego, and increase our confidence, and I know that social media ruined the romance, but I am active on the same social media, all of us maybe want to have luxurious life, good car, good house and so on. But I also see that people are craving for romance, for happy love and they promote it, to let other people know what do they need.
I hate that I see kind of flirting where a man with good amount of cash in his pocket, good car and good place in the club with a bottle of whiskey or champagne, flirt with women for only one thing. Damn, so stupid. There is no fire, sparkle, fireworks that you are really flirting because you really felt something, that you like her, that you feel her energy is matching with yours, you want to know her, to talk to her. Ok, sexual energy must be important but not only and neccessary.
Women supposed to be treated like ladies, like princesses. Let her feel unique and that she really deserves to be here. Men supposed to be treated like gentlemen, like real men that have a chance to show themselves like one. When we really put men and women in the right place, this world will be so much better place, and relationships will be like it always had been, romantic with full of love.
Sex, the most important thing in life and realtionship, our problem is that we are looking for this one only, to be quick, on the time we want. Ok, but, you know what, you'll have it, but in the end of the day, you are going to sleep alone. Who is going to hug you, who is going to kiss you for good morning? Who is going to bring you a coffee in a bed, who is going to have a shower with you and get ready for work? Life is too short, and you are wasting your life on tipical bullshit. I know you are scared to be heart broken, which is totally understandable, but you can take this slow, to not put emotions first, enjoy in couple of dates, show her that you care, that she cares. Make sure that he or she is the one you want to continue with. And nobody will be hurt if there is no possibility to go forward together.
You can feel it, you will know it, only if you open your heart and eyes to see. You think now, that all the women are the same, but what if you lost a chance to have this kind of relationship or a romance because you treat her wrong, or you just presented yourself to be instantly ignored.
Women also have the same problem, because we think men are the same, they want only our body and nothing else. Ok, that's correct thinking, but not for all of them. Maybe it's our problem that we don't give them chance to come closer to us, to not be ignored or humiliated.
The point is, open your eyes wide and really look around you, because love is beautful thing, it will fulfill your heart, your smile will be honest, you'll feel beautiful because of yourself, you'll be confident because you deserve it. Toxic relationship or marriage is not an option in your life, you have only one life and you deserve to be happy.
Also, don't make the same label to all men and women, it's not fair. Every person is special in their own way, it's up to you what do you like the most, and what do you need. Just, don't do something that you'll regret it, you'll be alone.
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